"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best day date to stimulate physical contact?

gimmeyofonenumba

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got a number from this chick at the club. Told her we'd get together tommorow afternoon. Problem is ill be moving in a week, and have like 2 more free days. I wanna get on her quick, heck tommorow might be the only available time for me before i leave. Should I tell her that im moving? we had a quick kiss on the lips at the club so obviously sex is on her mind. I just gotta find a way to present an oppurtunity. I wanna lay her on the first date, but its an afternoon date. Advice guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nighthawk

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Play pool. You can get kino, tease her, whip her ass, then take her ass home, Used to work for me. Make sure alcohol is involved.
 

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Pick a park and a bookstore if she is the intellectual kind of girl. It works like magic for me. The girls usually invites me back to her place. (I use the vocabulary, literature, appealing to her mind - angle). It works super fine for day game.

For women in general, for day game (this is ancient knowledge in the community apparently): Choose the date spot close to your apartment, and ask her to meet you outside your apartment. You'd conveniently be in the middle of wearing your socks or pressing your shirt, or boiling your tea, so you'd invite her in for a quick second while you get ready. Do nothing sexual there. She should feel totally safe being around you in your house. This will lower her guard when you ask her to step in for a sec into your room (to look at some interesting prop) at the end of the date. Of course, she usually will, and she usually will be impressed by your suave and put out (no kidding. Girls know this and play along).

Too much kino in day time in public is not the brightest idea on a first date... she'd have her anti-slut defence flaring.

Brain wave!

Try an art museum!!! Or anything else you can think of that involves you two being in close proximity.

sorry, I'm off to see Superbad. will come back and finish this. Hope this much helped.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Play tag or football. May sound childish but, it is a ACTION date. Women like guys who are still big kids. Just not immature!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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