"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best Coffee (To make at home)?

Kailex

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Anyone here make their own coffee at home?
In an effort to save myself 2 bucks everyday from buying at Dunkin Donuts (comes out to about 50 bucks a month, JESUS), I'd rather get up 10 minutes earlier and make my own, thus, saving myself some money.

But I don't want low quality stuff.

I know DD has like an offer where you can buy 4 of their bags for 20 bucks. That'd probably save me tons upon tons of money.

But I want to see if their is better stuff out there (which I am sure there is) that I can have. I'm used to strong coffees as well and I only drink a morning coffee.

Any suggestions?

And also, I have a cheap coffee maker, has anyone found that the machine you use can make a difference in the quality of coffee?

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Buy a grinder and whole beans. That is the most important part. Sam's Club has some decent whole-bean coffee. Eight O Clock coffee is also not bad for a cheap brand.

My coffee is like expresso. I make it strong. I like raw sugar and molasses as sweetener. Use bottled water if your tap water is really bad.

After having the coffee I make every morning, anything I buy at a restaurant or coffee shop is always a disappointment.
 

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I just started making coffee with a french press. Takes a little longer to make, but what a difference in taste.

Also, second the advise on whole beans and a grinder. Get good coffee, it's worth it.
 

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Trial and error man your bound to find something you'd like. Stay away from those big azz metal tins of coffee. Never found one of those to taste good
 

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I brew 8 O' Clock coffee French Roast which sells for about 4 dollars a bag which is half the price of Starbucks/DD coffee in most grocery stores. Here are a few tips for brewing good quality coffee at home.

1. Purchase Whole Beans and grind them yourself rather than buying grounds. Whole Beans will have a fresher taste and smell. You can get an automatic grinder for around 15-20 bucks. Keep the beans in an airtight container rather than the bag when not in use.

2. Use filtered water when brewing your coffee. I brew my coffee with water filtered through a Brita Pitcher that I keep in the refrigerator.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My personal rule is not to buy in bulk, nothing I won't use within a week or two tops. I was going to try the DD brand today, but the only bag I found was a very large bag :( so I guess I'll have to wait on it. I bought a bag of the 8 O'clock French roast haven't tried it yet.
 

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You know what's actually surprising, awhile back I bought a bag of dunkin' donuts coffee at a 7-11. I was surprised at how good it was. It was ground coffee.

It won't compare to any fancy bean coffee, but for a good tasting cup, it'll do. Worth a try sometime, imo.
 
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