"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Best City for Don Juans?
- Thread starter donjuan87
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PurplePimp
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very good lady here but some no what you american say "shave"? i no mind. sexee russian lady make me horny.
i promise i know you like.
pm me email address i send you paypal check for plane and hotel
you can be pimp with me
lets_do_this
Don Juan
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I'm shameless when it comes to the promotion of the entertainment capitol of the world.
everywomanshero
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I've never lived in Vegas, and I can imagine the strip never runs out of new ladies to sarge. I talked to one beautiful woman outside Bellangio. Her bf was at the hotel waiting. I nearly snagged her
Later, I took a photo for some girls going to Thunder Down Under. If you cannot meet women on the strip, then there is something SERIOUSLy wrong with you.
I didn't close anyone out there, but I wasn't really there for that purpose as I already had the sex all lined up
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
I've been to a hell of a lot of them and I'm quite impressed. Most notably Calgary and Vancouver. Even when I went to Saskatoon in the middle of winter I was baffled by the talent.
I've been to New York, San Jose, LA, Colorado and Arizona but I like how they breed them up north in Canada. I haven't been to Montreal but I've heard nothing but good things.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
b's nuts
Master Don Juan
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Be more specific. That could be any city..
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Oh yeah, Here comes some more of said shamless promotion!
I was at Pure last night and I hooked it up with two hot girls from vancouver, who my room mate and I the recuited to get us into the VIP are of the Club. We copped some free drinks from these guys 800 dollar bottles of finlandia noticed some hot girls outside the vip area and decided to game them. After dacing with those girls for a few songs, we found some even hotter girls on the dance floor and decided to upgrade to them!
There's no where else where you can find that kind of action, in a club that croweded on a friggin tuesday night.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mroriginal
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