"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best bootcut jeans out there?

KillingTime

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Ok first off, im talking moderately priced stuff... no $100 diesels.

I dont have access to an A&F around here so I ordered some of their barstar jeans.... i put them on and they absolutely scream "gay" IMO. The thighs are too tight, the size of the flare is good but since the thighs are so tight they have a really girly bellbottom look esp. from the back... I looked behind me in a mirror and they look so funny.
They also make the chugger jeans, anyone know the difference between those and the barstars?

Ive tried buying straight leg jeans but all the ones ive seen look way too baggy, i just can't find middle ground. If the barstars were a bit wider from the knee up they would be great.

The closest thing ive found to good jeans are the loose boot made by Bullhead.
They don't have the metrosexual look and are nice and loose but not overly "gangsta" baggy.

So what other brands should I look at? Express? What about the A&F chuggers?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diablo

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Barstars? Where'd you find those? They aren't sold by A&F anymore, same with chuggers - they aren't even sold in the store; if you're lucky you might find some in the stockroom. What's current now is the Saranac Boot... Barstar Flares are called that because they have a flare to them - chuggers are a boot cut, which means they fall straight all the way down your leg. Saranac's do the same.
 

doctoroxygen

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I tend to wear Gap and Ben Sherman jeans. Gap, in my opinion, make the best cheap jeans. They fit well and the denim is good quality. Ben Sherman is good too - I get them in London so the exchange rate sucks and I can't remember who sells them in the US. You'd probably pay $70 or $80 for a pretty high quality pair of jeans with Ben Sherman.

Personally, if I was still in the US, I'd get a pair of Diesel. When you're talking about pants that will last three or four years, $120 isn't that much to pay. I wish I could get two full years out of a pair of Gap jeans.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MindOverMatter

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damn D, 148 bucks (USD lol) for jeans, you must be a high roller.

Almost all Guess jeans are bootcuts now, and they're all awesome, huge selection.
 
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