“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Best Books to Improve Game NOT by PUAs or the community.

Aurora Demon

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I’ll start by listing what I think are the most helpful books for improving your game that are not from the community or written by a PUA.

The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene.

The Concise Art of Seduction by Robert Greene.

Influence byRobert Cialdini.

The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden.

Pimpology by Pimpin’ Ken.

Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbins.

Psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz.

The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.

Mastery by George Leonard.

Mastery by Robert Greene.

The Concise Mastery by Robeet Greene.

Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell.

The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell.

How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.

Zen Heart by Ezra Bayda.


Anything by Maxwell Maltz, Wckhart Tolle, Robert Greene, or Robert Cialdini I would recommend. All their other books are good.

Robert Greene is a bit cynical though, so be wary of that. His books are lengthy and advice is sometimes quite vague.

Robert Cialdini’s books may be the most helpful of alll.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"Unlocking the Female Mind: 60 Keys to Build Attraction and Connection" could be a good start because it's a science based manual, not a pickup book. If you are tired of PUA books, it's obviously a good choice.
 

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A SAYING to remember:

"Men only start to believe we NEED* women when they're not around" - Charles Bukowski

*It's fine to WANT them... Hell, Buk himself wanted and had a few million, over the course of his many decades. Projecting neediness/desperation sends anyone with their salt fleeing in the opposite direction, faster than The 3rd Reich rid The Continent of bar mitzvahs and gypsy caravans
 
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