“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Best books...besides The Game

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So I've already read The Game...twice, and I'm looking for a new book. I would love something that has a little more self-help/tips than The Game has(if I remember it is mostly stories), but the stories are also helpful/great in their own way.

I'd love for it to be something focusing on woman and/or attraction, but I am open to read life improvement books as well.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Power Of Now -by eckhart tolle

Its a heavy read but will change your life for the better to the max!

Best book...trumps all
 

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Rich dad poor dad was one of my first, 4 years a ago. A very nice introduction to a winners and losers mindset.

And Jed McKenna's trilogy about Spiritual Enlightenment > Anything from Eckhart Tolle IMO.
 

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Moral Animal by Jared Wright is absolutely beastly.

Sperm Wars too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How To Win Friends and Influence People- Dale Carnegie

The 48 Laws of Power & The Art of Seduction- Robert Greene

The Secret- Rhonda Byrne

You could read The Game's follow-up Rules of the Game. It has missions that make you come out of your shell. Look into those books. You might get referenced to others.
 

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"The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People"
-Stephen Covey

Pretty standard reading.
 

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Game wise, next level, I would get Real World Seduction by Swinggcat. Still one of the best, IMO.

Elkhart Tolle is worth checking out, as mentioned above. The book, I find, is better approache as a meditative form of reading. It is a good way to uncluttered your mind.

The Principles is also a really good book. Here it is.
http://manhood101.com/ebook.html

I would also recommend Jeffy Alan's book 8 ball, Around the world in 80 babes and Hypnoticas book, Meta*****. These books will give you a more personal look into these men's alternative lifestyles while opening your perceptions if what's possible.

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins was an highly influational book for myself.

But what is important is to taste from many different sources so you find what is best for you. There are so many great books out there, but a good place to start is what most matches your priorities and current interests.
 

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The Art Of Mackin by Tariq "King Flex" Nasheed
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone else think that 'The Game' = 'The Lame'?

I read a few chapters once and it just didn't really impress me that much. Neil's videos also seem kind of gimmicky.
 

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Sonny Knight said:
The Art Of Mackin by Tariq "King Flex" Nasheed
Agreed.

Models by Mark Manson is also a really good book on game, coming from a distinguished POV.

I'm reading Pimpology: 48 laws of pimpin by Pimpin Ken at the moment. You can download it via torrent.

I also consider all these books better than The Game, though The Game was an eye-opener, it totally lead me to analysis paralysis. It's still an AFC thing, the whole "The Game" strategy imo. It's too reactive. It's about CREATING attraction where there was originally none, which is something I don't try anymore. It's like supplicating in an indirect way.
 

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If you hadn't read those books you are missing a lot :

The Manipulated Man By Esther Vilar

The Polygamous Sex by Esther Vilar
 
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