salsipuedes
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I see theres a guy called David de Angelo and he has a book, and then theres Doc Love's the system, please recommend the best book for a begginer.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Best book
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sayajin_Prince
Don Juan
man i loved the 48 laws of powe by robert greene, it doesnt talk much about woman but it talks about gaining respect, being admired, being a leader, make others do things for you, control them, man it sure its a great beggining.
SELF-MASTERY
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yeah mang the 48 laws is a nice book. Have you read the art of seduction yet???
Other good books--- Pat Conroy
the lords of discipline and Beach music
he puts so many subplots into his book
Other good books--- Pat Conroy
the lords of discipline and Beach music
he puts so many subplots into his book
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
I recommended 48 Laws of Power a long time ago here... I'm glad to see others recognize it as a good book as well.
Another must read is Influence: The Psychology of Pesuasion by Robert Cialdini
Another must read is Influence: The Psychology of Pesuasion by Robert Cialdini
"As A Man Thinketh" by James Allen
And you can read it right now: http://www.bemyastrologer.com/as_a_man_thinketh_chapter1.html
And you can read it right now: http://www.bemyastrologer.com/as_a_man_thinketh_chapter1.html
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MacAvoy
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I remember seein in the bible and in some posts recommending reading material. I did a few searches on reading and 48 laws of power because I remember that bein mentioned every time.
Can anyone point me to that list or can we start a list here? Thx.
Can anyone point me to that list or can we start a list here? Thx.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
NO!
It cost way to much!
Just read the bible and other articles
It cost way to much!
Just read the bible and other articles
Evangenlion
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the protrait of durian gray by oscar wilde, the best book for all u kids to read lol