"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Best behaviour toward a girl which I dislike and dislikes me back

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,426
Reaction score
5,803
Long story short, I have to attend a certain environment where it happens to be this cvnt which I dont like and which doesnt like me back, I have no interest in her of course but this cvnt happens to be friends with other people which is my friends as well.

I tried to be polite and inclusive toward this cvnt just to keep eveything cool, like pretending of giving a fvck how she is doing or having small talk, it didnt work since she didnt even bother to reciprocate the attempt.

My position in that environment is higher than her however being she a girl, can count on the "emotional net" both from other girls than other white knights.

Right now Im just minding my own business, being polite but cold if I have to deal with her, mostly treating her as an acquaitance.

The situation is not critical or heavy but since I like to keep my back covered before problems may arise, Im interested in any suggestion or opinion.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Poon King

Banned
Joined
Nov 30, 2014
Messages
1,594
Reaction score
2,257
Location
Deep
Ignore her and never speak to her unless spoken to.

Structured environments are horrible situations for men. You are forced to interact with people you don't like or respect.

At my last job I had to sit near this obnoxious c*nt who had an opinion about everything and got a kick out of intimidating men (she said this herself).

Don't feed the trolls. So I ignored her existence unless I HAD to talk to her. A few times she tried to intimidate me with smart ass remarks. To which I would reply bluntly: "Do I detect attitude?" At which point she would apologize or make some BS excuse. :crackup:
 

WanderingMan

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2015
Messages
345
Reaction score
133
Location
Wandering
Agree with above, but also - AVOID by all means possible. Don't even look at her - just don't do it. Ignore and avoid. And have your phone ready to record audio in case she corners you. Chicks like this may try to 'win' at all costs - so if you do have to talk to her, try to make sure there are other people around, if that's not the case then record. CYA
 
Top