Alright so per my previous posts I have been stringing together a series of failures lately 
Most notably with this one girl i really liked that was basically coming onto me (summing up previous post), she works in the bar down the street from me. Took me long enough finally early last week I asked her, and she said yes and literally lit up when asked her. So she on was on duty and she coming back and forth to where I was sitting. Like an idiot, mostly wanting to make conversation she mentions where she likes to go out and that her friends are promoters.
My game turned to **** all of a sudden not sure, why just instinctively I started asking who she knew and we knew many of the same people in the nightlife circle, I got to one particular name and she laughed (fake) and had a look on her face of "oh figures". So she leaves and says she'll be right back. We were there for at least an hour and a half longer. Eventually I leave, and prob didnt help that I just left.
I was out of town, which I told her i was going to be. Went back in on Tues, wow just a complete 180. As much as she was flirting me before she was trying to avoid me. It was bad. When I left, I said by her nicely using her name, she just gave my friend and I the same look for about 2 seconds "bye guys" then looked away. Something about that conversation really set her off, she probably feels I'm a bit too close to her social circle or maybe had something with the guy's name I mentioned. However I am not even friends with these people, just people that see me out and I can ask to get on lists etc. So that is the summary of where I am at.
Now it appears to be dead, not sure I can re-engage the girl?But since I have nothing going on with her now what is there to lose by taking one last hail mary pass? Unless I can figure out something better, I just plan on flagging her down and asking her about our "date" (wont say date) or just tell her I am still looking forward to -------. My friend (a chick) actually told me in a joking manner I should ask her If I gave her a bad impression and use some self effacing humor about it? Regardless I will really regret not at least trying to get back on track.
Most notably with this one girl i really liked that was basically coming onto me (summing up previous post), she works in the bar down the street from me. Took me long enough finally early last week I asked her, and she said yes and literally lit up when asked her. So she on was on duty and she coming back and forth to where I was sitting. Like an idiot, mostly wanting to make conversation she mentions where she likes to go out and that her friends are promoters. My game turned to **** all of a sudden not sure, why just instinctively I started asking who she knew and we knew many of the same people in the nightlife circle, I got to one particular name and she laughed (fake) and had a look on her face of "oh figures". So she leaves and says she'll be right back. We were there for at least an hour and a half longer. Eventually I leave, and prob didnt help that I just left.
I was out of town, which I told her i was going to be. Went back in on Tues, wow just a complete 180. As much as she was flirting me before she was trying to avoid me. It was bad. When I left, I said by her nicely using her name, she just gave my friend and I the same look for about 2 seconds "bye guys" then looked away. Something about that conversation really set her off, she probably feels I'm a bit too close to her social circle or maybe had something with the guy's name I mentioned. However I am not even friends with these people, just people that see me out and I can ask to get on lists etc. So that is the summary of where I am at.
Now it appears to be dead, not sure I can re-engage the girl?But since I have nothing going on with her now what is there to lose by taking one last hail mary pass? Unless I can figure out something better, I just plan on flagging her down and asking her about our "date" (wont say date) or just tell her I am still looking forward to -------. My friend (a chick) actually told me in a joking manner I should ask her If I gave her a bad impression and use some self effacing humor about it? Regardless I will really regret not at least trying to get back on track.