Best and Worst Dating years for men

[Dhoulmagus]

Best

18-22
In college you are surrounded and in a closer proximity to many women your age. In addition, you have a lot more free time and opportunities to meet women. The con is that the competition is really high at this stage.

Late 20s to 40s
If a man has built up his career and taken care of himself then he will kill it at this stage. The competition has drastically lowered, the man has accumulated wealth, prestige, and knowledge, and he has more things going for him in his life. The con is that he might have trouble finding a woman worth his time at that age.

Worst
Post College to late 20s
You have just left an environment catered to you for the real world. In addition, the women around you have probably gotten married or still haven't matured yet. If you are starting a professional job at this point then you won't have the free time, energy, or the carelessness to be able to compete with deadbeats and college bros. In addition, you don't have the wealth and prestige to compete with older men yet. Pros are that you can really get to learn yourself in this period.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Worst in my opinion is my age. High school. Too young to actually date college girls, most people don't understand social dynamics, you havn't fully matured, girls are annoying as hell...

Can't wait for college. I do think the best is late 20s to early 40s. If you start lifting at 18 and get a good job, by 30 if you've stayed on track you'll kill it.

College is great because the logistics side heavily benefits you. The competition is so heavy that its pretty much hell if you aren't the 10% of the guys the girls are chasing. You'll know who they are when you arrive lol. One thing I will say is that if you aren't pulling any in high school then college won't be your savior at all. In fact, you will have to play catchup like me in college. My advice, do your best in high school to prepare yourself for college rather it be girls or classes.

 

[bigneil]

As you get older, you have to try harder and harder to stay in shape.

The moment you start to slip, the world will tell you that you were never any good.

But as long as you stay in shape, you can literally have women half your age fawning over you.

As my dad always said, the difference between victory and defeat is the tiniest detail.

 

[Dingo]

What he said ^.....

I'm 50+ and have no problem....

 

[bigneil]

Tonight I was out and I saw the most beautiful older women. They were about my age, and both were striking. Somehow it can sometimes be more intimidating trying to pick up women our own age, I'm not exactly sure why. Anyhow, they invited me over to sit with them. They thought I was the bodyguard to the lead guitarist to the band. When one of the women took my hand and I felt as though I bonded somehow. It was better than any table dance ever. Her friend said "She's engaged but it's to the wrong guy, you have to rescue her".

If there is one thing I must admit, as much as I love younger women, older women are usually much more fulfilling to have relationships with. They are usually better in bed, and far less likely to flake.

That said, tonight my waitress was 18 and I would have pulled my own wisdom teeth with pliers to have 5 minutes with her. Will 18 year old women still be attractive when we're 70?

 

[ohrein]

Will 18 year old women still be attractive when we're 70?

Yes. The statistics show that 21 is the most attractive age for a woman and that age is congruent for all male ages. Whatever age you are, 21 is the hottest until you die.

 

[Dingo]

Well.... I know I'm pretty much invisible to the very young....but that's OK.... I have zero interest in them. I'll take a attractive experienced woman any day over those vapid girls.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Well.... I know I'm pretty much invisible to the very young....but that's OK.... I have zero interest in them. I'll take a attractive experienced woman any day over those vapid girls.

I can't seem to attract any decent girl 21 and over.

 

[raider87]

Depends on the individual. I was very boyish at 18-22, struggled like a mofo in my mid 20's. I'm 29 now and feel like I'm about to kill it for the next 20yrs if I like. All the glory will be to the posters here though.

 

[MrWood]

yes, I will even say that 45-49 are even good, you can easily date 10+ younger
I am getting alot action from the 38-42, anything older I reject firsthand

 

[Desdinova]

The high school years were bittersweet. I was too nervous and shy to approach, but when I did end up with somebody, the feelings were fantastic but they drove me bat5hit crazy.

The 20s were okay (after I found this site) but now that I look back on it, it seemed like my options were quite limited.

My 30s have been amazing. The age range of women I've dated are 18-40. That is a HUGE range with many options to choose from, and I took advantage of all of it. Dating a 19 year old one month, dating a 36 year old another month, a 25 year old after that, etc etc.

The only thing I can forsee for my 40s is the early 20s range slightly closing up, but that's mostly due to society labelling the age gap as "disgusting".

 

[MrWood]

The only thing I can forsee for my 40s is the early 20s range slightly closing up, but that's mostly due to society labelling the age gap as "disgusting".

in North America...

anywhere else you should pull 23-30yo without issue in your early 40's

 

[Building_and_Loan]

Your college years, followed by late 20s - mid 30s are the best years for dating. I'd give a slight edge to college years due to the sheer availability of girls who are at their physical peak, and you're in an environment conducive to hooking up and dating lots of people.

Most universities also have a female majority, and 99.9% of them are also unmarried and looking to date. So many opportunities to meet people, instadate opportunities, house parties, bars, social clubs, different friend groups and social circles you can be a part of, etc.

 

[Mr Wright]

This post education world really does dry up the püssy, I've seen it with my friends my age. You can see how guys in my age bracket (21-25), get hooked into these püssy traps and get married early on. The girl basically has him isolated early on, she is his sole source of vagina so he will not leave, gets married, you know the rest...

This is why I think it's so important to stay single throughout your college years and early 20's and most importantly, get some hustle and learn to pick up chicks. I don't care how it's done but show yourself that you are worthy of options and not just the first piece of vagina that comes along and sticks around. When you're at university, there is so much free püssy hanging about, yeah it's more competitive but get the right physique and mindset, you will literally clean up and the girls will do the work for you. Once you graduate and enter the real world it's harder, I'm in this stage, moved back home but I've worked really hard to make sure the püssy doesn't dry up and I end up getting caught in the trap of falling for the first thing that comes my way. If you hustle, you do get the rewards, find what works for you and rinse and repeat.

So yeah, this age is hard, it's definitely harder to get laid now than a few years when i was at university but I do still average a new girl every month. If you put in the work now to get good with women in terms of your game, by the time you are hitting the peak SMV years, you will be killing it.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

This post education world really does dry up the püssy, I've seen it with my friends my age. You can see how guys in my age bracket (21-25), get hooked into these püssy traps and get married early on. The girl basically has him isolated early on, she is his sole source of vagina so he will not leave, gets married, you know the rest...

This is why I think it's so important to stay single throughout your college years and early 20's and most importantly, get some hustle and learn to pick up chicks. I don't care how it's done but show yourself that you are worthy of options and not just the first piece of vagina that comes along and sticks around. When you're at university, there is so much free püssy hanging about, yeah it's more competitive but get the right physique and mindset, you will literally clean up and the girls will do the work for you. Once you graduate and enter the real world it's harder, I'm in this stage, moved back home but I've worked really hard to make sure the püssy doesn't dry up and I end up getting caught in the trap of falling for the first thing that comes my way. If you hustle, you do get the rewards, find what works for you and rinse and repeat.

So yeah, this age is hard, it's definitely harder to get laid now than a few years when i was at university but I do still average a new girl every month. If you put in the work now to get good with women in terms of your game, by the time you are hitting the peak SMV years, you will be killing it.

The problem is that I'm not attracting the right girls. I can only get meetups with college party sloots atm which sounded awesome in college, but not so great with a 40 hour work week job. They either think I'm not cool enough because I'm a young professional and not some former tatted up former football player working at walmart or they are just not worth my time in general.