Best advice?

[Eternal_water]

What is the best advice you could give to a 21 year old, who has no idea what he is doing, about women.

(besides reading the DJ bible)

 

[omega05]

focus on yourself first. are you in school, working, what else are you doing with your life?

 

[Eternal_water]

Job hunting

 

[Huffman]

Your toughest challenge will be to get him to follow your advice.

With problems like this, you can never help others. You can only help them to help themselves.

 

[Eternal_water]

Your toughest challenge will be to get him to follow your advice.

With problems like this, you can never help others. You can only help them to help themselves.

I was speaking kinda 3rd person. I'm him. I'm the one who needs the advice.

 

[Eternal_water]

bump

 

[JohnChops]

Forget about women until you build yourself.from the ground up. Improvement is the path of success , women are simply lucky to have a piece of your success

 

[Trump]

What is the best advice you could give to a 21 year old, who has no idea what he is doing, about women.

(besides reading the DJ bible)

Lol. Bro there is no red pill that will get you sex.

For you ask for advice and then tell us not to give you a certain piece of advice because its not what you want to hear is a problem right there.

 

[thevilittletroll]

sounds like you need to learn how to be more social. this might sound a little gay but trust me it works. helped me out a lot when i moved to a new town and knew nobody. go out to the bar and start cold approaching guys and try to make a few more guy friends. easy subjects to talk about are sports and chicks. those are 2 things that 90% of all men have in common. start building a little social cirlce. the guys that you make friends with will most likely have girl friends they can introduce you to, so on and so on.

 

[DonDiscovery]

I would say:

1. do not make women your top priority; work out, get a job, study, try new activities, make your life fulfilling and interesting. women are a fun break from the other parts of your life

2. more practical advice; approach women straight up and say 'Hi, my names x , whats yours?' etc this should build your confidence. spin lots of plates. the law of averages dictates that after a certain number of approaches at least one will be successful

3. read and digest as much of the bible as possible. if it helps, condense important parts down into a few simple tips to keep you on course on a daily basis.

difficult to summarise all that this community has taught me