"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best advice I ever got

alphawolfx

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1) Always make sure you are having fun, especially if you go out sarging

2) DO NOT CARE ABOUT THE OUTCOME
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what's sarging in your case?
 

alphawolfx

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when i go out to meet women

during the day, sarging is the normal stuff of talking to a female who i want to approach

during the night, sarging is not just ogint out to meet women, but going out with my LAIR and critiquing each other's approaches, and doing crazy s.hit like running down the street after a set we already passed, or opening the same set another guy just bombed in...

being a DJ is who you are, sarging is the ACTIVITY...

right now i enjoy having it as an activity, until it becomes so natural that women approach me.
 
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