"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Besides beauty, what are some traits that YOU find desirable in a woman?

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Her personal hygiene. If i saw a girl who is really taking care of her self starting from skin even on toe and nails, I am very attractive to those. I hate untidy girl.. lol...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gray The Prince

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Eternal_water said:
Kinda related in a strange way, they say you can't judge a book by its cover, but I think you can actually tell a lot about a person based on the way they look.

If you could have a ONS with one of these girls and then a long term relationship with the other, which would you have the ONS with and which would you have the relationship with?


1st girl

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2nd girl

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btw I actually know these 2, so it would be interesting to hear you opnions based on your first impressions.
Judging by this and that other post about that whale being a 9.5, you have an awful taste in women. No offense.
 

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the thing is, i never really though about the girl I wanted because I believed I could never get her.

so I have no ****ing clue.

I made a list one night when I was talking to someone. can't rememberer who. here is my list. and yes, this is just a superficial list because it is asking WAY too much.



• Red hair
• Into music. And Or plays an instrument
• Must be good at cooking
• Must be intellectual
• Independent
• Size 6-12
• Open minded girl
• Knows how to please me
• Has great sense of style
• Hand full of breast at the lease, DD at the most
• Has great ass
• Good career
• Nice family
• Takes care of her body
• Know what she wants out of life and gets it
• Gives bjs.
• has self respect
• very disciplined
• Very sexy
• Knows how to talk dirty
• Know what tunes me on
• Is very playful
• Knows about bob Dylan.
• Likes music
• Is open minded in the bedroom
• Dress up for me
 

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MM92 said:
ONS with girl one, LTR with girl 2. I'm guessing i've got it the wrong way round by personality?
Interesting, I would go the same. you got it right by personality, unfortunately the guy right after said the opposite and 2 people isn't really conclusive to judging on first impressions.

I was hoping for more responses.

Girl 1, posh b***h, bit up herself, has that annoying sense of entitlement. Has an italian boyfriend. I'd take the ONS cos she has nice legs (she does a lot of athletics)

Girl 2, very friendly open person, easy to talk to, always smiling and its a genuine smile. Hard to believe she's single really.
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Judging by this and that other post about that whale being a 9.5, you have an awful taste in women. No offense.
This one was nothing to do with rating their looks, this was purely to see If you can judge a person on their looks, I wanted you to say your opinion on the type of person they are, their personalities by their looks and I'd say If you were right.

btw lets see what you would class as good looking
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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