"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Besides beauty, what are some traits that YOU find desirable in a woman?

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Her personal hygiene. If i saw a girl who is really taking care of her self starting from skin even on toe and nails, I am very attractive to those. I hate untidy girl.. lol...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eternal_water said:
Kinda related in a strange way, they say you can't judge a book by its cover, but I think you can actually tell a lot about a person based on the way they look.

If you could have a ONS with one of these girls and then a long term relationship with the other, which would you have the ONS with and which would you have the relationship with?


1st girl

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2nd girl

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btw I actually know these 2, so it would be interesting to hear you opnions based on your first impressions.
Judging by this and that other post about that whale being a 9.5, you have an awful taste in women. No offense.
 

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the thing is, i never really though about the girl I wanted because I believed I could never get her.

so I have no ****ing clue.

I made a list one night when I was talking to someone. can't rememberer who. here is my list. and yes, this is just a superficial list because it is asking WAY too much.



• Red hair
• Into music. And Or plays an instrument
• Must be good at cooking
• Must be intellectual
• Independent
• Size 6-12
• Open minded girl
• Knows how to please me
• Has great sense of style
• Hand full of breast at the lease, DD at the most
• Has great ass
• Good career
• Nice family
• Takes care of her body
• Know what she wants out of life and gets it
• Gives bjs.
• has self respect
• very disciplined
• Very sexy
• Knows how to talk dirty
• Know what tunes me on
• Is very playful
• Knows about bob Dylan.
• Likes music
• Is open minded in the bedroom
• Dress up for me
 

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MM92 said:
ONS with girl one, LTR with girl 2. I'm guessing i've got it the wrong way round by personality?
Interesting, I would go the same. you got it right by personality, unfortunately the guy right after said the opposite and 2 people isn't really conclusive to judging on first impressions.

I was hoping for more responses.

Girl 1, posh b***h, bit up herself, has that annoying sense of entitlement. Has an italian boyfriend. I'd take the ONS cos she has nice legs (she does a lot of athletics)

Girl 2, very friendly open person, easy to talk to, always smiling and its a genuine smile. Hard to believe she's single really.
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Judging by this and that other post about that whale being a 9.5, you have an awful taste in women. No offense.
This one was nothing to do with rating their looks, this was purely to see If you can judge a person on their looks, I wanted you to say your opinion on the type of person they are, their personalities by their looks and I'd say If you were right.

btw lets see what you would class as good looking
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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