"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so, any suggestions on how to get back with an ex girlfriend if you broke up mutually?
just ignor her? anything?
thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any advice?

Yea... spend 5 minutes and remember why you broke up in the first place

It's funny after you break up with somebody and miss their acquaintance you forget about the reasons underlying the break up but keep playing the 'good' times over and over in your head, lol...

Word of the day... rationalise
 
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insanity

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chances are if you and her agreed that you should both break up. you probably hoped she was going to whine and beg that you not dump her but it backfired and she agreed that it should be over when in all likleyhood you still had strong feelings for her.

wow this must be dump month or something because thats a frequent question here alot. chances are if she left without putting up a fight then her interest level had dropped for you. regaining it is another story. you've been labled as boring or needy as the description of i want to get back with my ex...how do i do it.

your best bet is to move on. but if you caqn't then i would suggest minamal contact and don't cater to her. if she calls tell her your busy and to call you back...don't call her back at all or you'll seem desperate. it's not really a win situation. like i said if a woman breaks it off mutually then you must have been boring or the relationship was pretty lame
 
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the_azn_fu said:
so, any suggestions on how to get back with an ex girlfriend if you broke up mutually?
just ignor her? anything?
thanks
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Realise she isn't the only chick alive and move on, for the love of God.

And you didn't break up mutually - she broke up with you and you went along with it like it was a mutual descision. Don't kid yourself.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you really want to give it another shot, bang three other women, then give her a call and ask to catch up over coffee.

The Banging of the three other women will give you confidence and a non-needy attitude. Plus, if it doesn't work, you'll probably realize your ex is not so different from any other woman.
 
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