Benefits of commitment

[HaleyBaron]

I know people with lots of lonely issues, especially the guys who had gfs since high school and feel like if they break up, they have to find a new one asap. It's like that's all they know, and never knew how to live by themselves. I can sit in my house for weeks without social contact, but know people who can't take a day without it. They even told me that they just can't imagine living without being in a relationship.

 

[SW15]

The OP/Chads/Chadlites probably don't put too much of an effort doing anything. They just have to show up. So that would probably be easy for them.

They have a lower thrreshold but they still have to demonstrate some game to get laid.

In the situation the Chad/Chadlite/Tyrones are the "hot chick" . The females want to nail them, many of them do. Those guys are much more discriminant in who they will put up with and turn down a lot of sex. Females stalk and bug these guys. They double text them. They try to do acts of service to show their interest, etc.

Must be nice to experience that.

This is one of the reasons I can think of. ‘Fitting in” and “not being alone” are others.

In my early 30s, I used to say exactly this. Sex and someone to bring to social functions were the two primary benefits of romantic relationships. Even before the pandemic, a lot of my social functions dissipated due to changes in my primary local social circle. People started moving to different far flung suburbs so there were fewer get togethers. Dogs and suburban houses became the priorities for the rest of the social circle except for me.

 

[corrector]

They have a lower thrreshold but they still have to demonstrate some game to get laid.

Yeah, the "don't mess it up" game by NOT saying something deeply offensive that will turn off the woman or being too autistic and acting mentally impaired. That's not a hard game to learn.

 

[SW15]

Yeah, the "don't mess it up" game by NOT saying something deeply offensive that will turn off the woman or being too autistic and acting mentally impaired. That's not a hard game to learn.

If you are 6'0"+ and muscular, that is the game. As a 5'10" guy who is fit but not overly muscular, I need charisma.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Companionship is a lie OP. They are concubines and servants. They work for you. Equality is BS.

Doesn't that make you sound very needy?

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

No

Who works for you? In what way did this ever happen to you in real life?

 

[Georgepithyou]

Not all of us want to spin plates all the time, the eventual goal of a relationship is to get married and have kids one day. Otherwise why else would you even get into a relationship?