"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Benefits of a LTR

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You being tired of it does not mean it’s a benefit. Meeting different women does not mean they are damaged. One woman could be damaged too.



That’s laziness on the mans part.



How a mans spends his time is up to him.



How a man spends his time is up to him.



Having kids in a LTR does not mean a woman will dedicated and respectful to you, she will be for the kids. How does that benefit you?



What does knowing her better have to do with gift giving? You are telling me you would give your 44 year old LTR a better gift than a 27 year movie star you can sleep with?



How? If you are with one girl for several years her expectations go up while her value does down. If you are with 5 girls, there expectations are kept in check at all times.

Unless you want to ‘connect’ with them. Get something that you can’t feel, see, or touch, but ‘feel’ good.



You still haven’t logically explained why it’s a benefit.

I just got to logically understand. When I get fixated on one girl, I got to know why I’m not constantly hitting on others. The only response I can come up with is ‘familiarity’ and ‘it’s feels good’. Two things that sound girly and don’t make the world go around.
Mr. Trump, are you a troll?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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