"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If it feels like she's losing or lost interest is there any benefit being the one to bring up ending it..

Cos I dont really want to jump the gun and end it when she was actually still interested, but if there's a longer term benefit I will consider biting the bullet and trying to look like it was my idea..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was thinking more long term. More chance of keeping her as a plate or relationship in the future
 
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Dont play games.

End it if you WANT to end it. If she no longer finds you attractive and you dump her in some crazy effort to "raise her attraction".....you will be mightily disappointed when she starts banging a new guy a few days later.
 
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I was thinking more long term. More chance of keeping her as a plate or relationship in the future
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This is coming from a lack of abundance mentality. If you had 4-5 other equally as good looking girls on tap, you wouldn't even be thinking about that chick again. Put the time in, get better with women and you won't have to have this mentality ever again because you'll know you can easily go and get another girl. A lack of abundance mentality will always hold you back and that's when neediness and stupid decisions start to creep in.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I get what you're saying and I'm working on it.

I got too involved with this one and I can feel it slipping away. Horrible feeling. It's a fee weeks til I can ask her out and seal my fate too, going to try work on some plates in the mean time.
 
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