benefit of being the one to end it

[Comatozed]

If it feels like she's losing or lost interest is there any benefit being the one to bring up ending it..

Cos I dont really want to jump the gun and end it when she was actually still interested, but if there's a longer term benefit I will consider biting the bullet and trying to look like it was my idea..

 

[MtnMan]

pride?

 

[Comatozed]

I was thinking more long term. More chance of keeping her as a plate or relationship in the future

 

[TheException]

Dont play games.

End it if you WANT to end it. If she no longer finds you attractive and you dump her in some crazy effort to "raise her attraction".....you will be mightily disappointed when she starts banging a new guy a few days later.

 

[Mr Wright]

I was thinking more long term. More chance of keeping her as a plate or relationship in the future

This is coming from a lack of abundance mentality. If you had 4-5 other equally as good looking girls on tap, you wouldn't even be thinking about that chick again. Put the time in, get better with women and you won't have to have this mentality ever again because you'll know you can easily go and get another girl. A lack of abundance mentality will always hold you back and that's when neediness and stupid decisions start to creep in.

 

[Comatozed]

I get what you're saying and I'm working on it.

I got too involved with this one and I can feel it slipping away. Horrible feeling. It's a fee weeks til I can ask her out and seal my fate too, going to try work on some plates in the mean time.