"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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bench press vs. push ups: how many/much?

madgame

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I've been working out with weights for 6 or 7 years (without stopping) and my chest is like my best worked out body part. I push 102,5kg (around 225lbs) 7 times. However I've always focused on the 5-10 range for building muscle and building strength.

One thing that I really find a bit funny however is, that I can about equally as much push-ups as in the 5th grade lol. I can do between 30 and 40 (really clean ones with nose touching the ground). I could do that in the 5th grade, too. However I'm definetly much stronger now (EDIT:I mean I'm much stronger compared to other guys my age of course HAHA). I'm wondering is it just b/c I have never worked on 'endurance' that I can't do many push ups more than the average guy or is it more due to my body weight (as I'm kinda muscular (but lean) at 195-200lbs I have to push a lot more weight, too of course).

What are your experiences? How much weight can u bench press and how many push-ups can you do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You were probably lighter in the 5th grade too. I can do about the same as you, but for a real challenge, try doing some dive bomber push ups.
 

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Yeah, that's true of course. Obviously somebody who does 30 push ups and weighs 60kg is a lot less strong (even when it comes to endurance) then somebody who does 30 push-ups at 90kg...however, I really just noticed how big the difference was, b/c on the bench I hardly know anybody who can press as much as me (however, I don't know any football players, weight lifters or bodybuilders ;-)), but the amount of push-ups I do, I'm sure a couple of my friends could do that, too (but then again, yeah they r lighter).

However, I think I'll add some push-ups to my routine, won't hurt me to work out my slow twitch fibers, too.
 

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Espi said:
Yep...weight dictates the amount of pushups you do.

Personally, high reps of pushups mean nothing to me. If I can do beyond 50, I start slowing the movement to add resistance or change the position of my hands...

Pushups are VERY effective for supersetting tri's. Do a set of skullcrushers and follow it with pushep ups. You won't do many, but you'll work your tri's like you wouldn't believe.
If you really want to work your tri's with pus-ups you need a real close grip.
Sometimes reffered to as "diamond" or tricep push-ups.
Just put your index fingers together and your thumbs together to for a diamond (or a vag.)Go all the way down and go sloooow. KILLLLLS the tri's
 

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madgame said:
However, I think I'll add some push-ups to my routine, won't hurt me to work out my slow twitch fibers, too.
don't forget the pinky twist curls!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think its the same with a lot of bodyweight exercises.

I remember when I was 14, I could do 18 chin ups (proper ones, arms fully straightened) but I don't think I could do any more than that now, even though I'm a lot stronger.
 
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