"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bench (flat/incline) tip I learned today

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You know the tube like rubber cushion some people use when squatting?

Maybe you guys know/do this already but take it and put it on the bar when your doing flat and incline bench. This way when your making sure your doing the full ROM your not injuring your chest bone.

I saw some guy doing this today and I was like.. ****ing genius! :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I know that you can bench onto foam and it takes a lot of the strain of off the shoulders...

To be honest though I don't think the above is necassary, as you should be lowering the bar in a controlled fashion.
 

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you could retract your shoulderblades in a hanging pull up position to strengthen them, and hence you'll have a more stable foundation for your bench.

just something I remember reading somewhere, it seems to have helped my bench a lil.
 

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Good idea. I guess it could be good for eccentric concentric (super fast) presses.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well I know for me that there have been days where I thought I was only touching my chest but later found I has bruises on it. I look at it like an insurance policy. Sure controlled is the way to go.. but I figure if I sightly misjudge the cushion will work as a decent backup plan to keep from beating up my chest.
 

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Not to mention if you dont have a spotter and you lose your grip you have some cushioning :)
 

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does this work for deadlifts? i mean the bar barely grazes my shins but when i go for a shower an hour later they're all bruised and crap.
 

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int3l said:
does this work for deadlifts? i mean the bar barely grazes my shins but when i go for a shower an hour later they're all bruised and crap.
or try manning up! jks :D

not sure how big those cushion pads are at your gym, but the ones at mine would barely be long enough. Or just do as Kerpal suggested.
 

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Kerpal said:
Try wearing sweatpants.
thats the thing, i do... nice gray cotton sweatpants, and i still get bruised.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Int3l:
Next time you do deads, before you lift make sure the bar is right up next to your shins. Sounds counter intuitive but it works. I was having the same problem as you but I read this on stronglifts (somewhere on there.. I'm tired or I'd find you the link) that pointed this out to me. I made said change and now my shins don't get bruised NEARLY as much now.
 

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Your 160lbs bench will not cause your ribcage to collapse, I assure you.
 

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When I played football we used a 4" thick foam block on our chest that served two purposes. One, it kept us from dropping the weight on us, like you said, and two, it protected our shoulders from the heavy weight. Bringing the weight all the way down to your chest puts alot of stress on your shoulders, and I don't recommend doing it.

Either way, you shouldn't be bouncing the weight. Slow and controlled negatives are the way to go.
 
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