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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not Quite There

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Should i be using a lifting belt now i'm beginning to lift heavy weights? (heavy for me anyhow).

I notice a lot of the older guys in the gym use them, but i'm not really feeling any probelm without one now, but am I a problem waiting to happen?

I gather there is a few school of thoughts on this, the more modern idea being the belt weakens your core muscles which can end up causing problems.

I just want some opinions really.

Cheers

In case there are threads on this already, i searched but couldn't find anything specific.
 

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iLoveCookies

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I dont really know how heavy you go or how much you weigh and how long you have been doing it, but I would suggest staying off the belt unless you are going super heavy and maybe only for squat and deadlift or maybe just maybe military press. If you need a belt to do seated curls you should be slapped with a 10 lb dumbell
 
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