"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am 26 years old and I have only had one seriously relationship (4 years). I had little confidence growing up and still struggle due to a messed up child hood. I hardly dated in high school, but now I am being told by people that I am very good looking, hot, etc. I have a hard time letting that motivate me to go approach girls that I would consider 10's or 9's. I feel like I lost alot of time though not asking girls out back in the day because obviously they would have gone with me lol.

I went on a date with this girl yesterday that I met online (4th time we have hung out) and she basically tells me she is quite nervous around me because I am so hot. I think she feels like I am too good for her (she's a 6.5 or a 7). She goes on to say that when she first saw me she thought I would be ****y because I am "Very attractive", but I'm actually a really cool guy. Then goes on to say that I could get away with being ****y if I wanted to. Then said that she bets I have a bunch of girls trying to get with me.


Since I just find this girl mdoerately attractive but she and others (as I have been told) think I'm very hot...is there a good c hance t hat the girls I REALLY WANT to go out with will think the same? Do I need to always go for the girls that I find to be EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE or just settle? I think in a way I kind of just settled with my ex and she said things like, "You can find someone you are more attracted to." THe girl I went on the date with yesterday also said that I am unapproachable because I am so hot and if she saw me she would probably just look away or act uninterested. I know I should feel better about myself because of all this information but I feel so inexperienced with asking girls out, going on dates, that I feel inadequate or something. Even though in the back of my mind I think I could get with some HB's. What to do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I may be rude and I'm sorry. Get the **** off this forum with this crazy ass thread. Do you have a ****? How about a pair of balls? Do you have any male friends? Make some now. You have low self-esteem from growing up. You been around too many females or maybe not, but you havent been around any dudes. You are on some ***** **** and you may be gay. Or you just don't know how to act. What you wanna do is call all this advice seeking, low self esteem having ***** **** some bull ****. Cause seriously, unless your gay you have no reason to have low self esteem. Use this as an excuse for now, you didn't want to grow up so quickly so your staying a boy. Yep, your a 26 yr old boy.


Gay males think like girls. Girls thinking has alot of low self esteem in it.
Don't panic though, just grow up. You will be alright. BTW, your a spoiled ass brat... Fix that as well
 
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I agree with the jist, although not the delivery.

Basically, if you're good looking to the point where its an issue for women and people repeatedly tell you this, you're dumb to think otherwise. I think in your case your looks never have been issues on your potential game.

I wouldn't let your looks factor into your outlook on this. I also wouldnt call it settling if you have not gotten girls in the past and you actually like the hb 7 you mentioned. If its really a concern, keep seeing HB 7 and try spitting game elsewhere.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's really just my issues with social anxiety that are my problem. I have this problem where I really think about th ings before they even happen. I think I might even approach people with the mindset that I am against them and likewise. I need to stop that lol. No, honestly HB7 is looking for a relationship and she isn't the kind of girl that I want that from. I don't think she will even f*ck until she knows shes got me. We have fooled aro und though. I know there are other girls out there that I would rather date...not sure if I want to keep her as back up or something lol.

There's actually this really cute girl that I saw working a drive thru today. My co worker drove us (she's a girl). So I was tellin her, "dang that girl is cute" but my friend/co-worker disagreed with me. I asked if she thought I could get with her and sh e said YES. So I want to go back up there when I'm driving. Just wondering how to go about asking if she wants to hang out.

I thought maybe I could just pull up, order my food and then when she gives it to me...hand her a piece of paper with my name and number and tell her, "Call me sometime." SOund good? SHould I do this without asking her name or for her phone number?
 
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Rhino you just need an mindset adjustment. I suggest lifting weights if you aren't already.
 
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You should post pictures, Rhino, I want to see this insanely good looking person you make yourself out to be.
 
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TizZle said:
Rhino you just need an mindset adjustment. I suggest lifting weights if you aren't already.
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So lifting weights will help with that? Anything else?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jhcl4000 said:
You should post pictures, Rhino, I want to see this insanely good looking person you make yourself out to be.
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There you go.
 
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