"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Beliefs-Passwords

Doggystyle

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Passwords!

Just was thinking the other day that I type the same pointless word over and over again all day, logging on to my emails or a porn site(ha ha) or work...... everyone has passwords for everything!

Every time I type that word, my good old brain makes a picture of whatever pointless stupid word i'm typing.

For those who need to install beliefs or affirmations into there subconscious, try taking the first letter of each word in the statement and using it as your password.

e.g.
All women are dirty *****s and just want to ****

password: AWADWAJWTF

(I actually wrote a really good one and deleted it as i'm changing all my passwords to it!)

Then every time you type those letters on your keyboard, you will have to think of the belief so you can remember the letters for your password. After a while you will start to believe it and act accordingly.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sean O

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Uhh... I guess it's a good method if you're really having trouble with that kinda thing. Myself, I prefer affirmations. But whatever.
 
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