Super Hero
Don Juan
We are all individuals. Unique, special, whatever you want to call it…we have heard the saying so many times before.
But what does this really mean? Everyday we see countless examples of people telling their friends “Look man, just be yourself.” There are of course similar clichés but this one is by far the most prominent.
Let me give it to you straight:
I have personally built my sex, social, and relationship lives from the ground up. Each one different, yet they all combine to form a whole. And in the beginning, none of this construction had anything to do with the pickup community as we now know it. This is every person’s responsibility and I urge you to take control of this right now.
Besides, how the hell can you be yourself when you don’t even accept yourself? You look in the mirror and all these limiting beliefs come flying towards you and all you can do is cower in defense. For once in your life, stand the **** up!
Do you ever find yourself changing your views in front of attractive women? Whether it be a particular opinion you had about something or even a choice of clothing, we are all guilty of this at one time or another.
But my question is this: why the hell do guys even do this in the first place? Why would you ever change for a few seconds what took you your entire life to build? It just doesn’t make any sense.
Earlier today I found myself supplicating to a woman who has currently captured my attention. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying don’t ever supplicate. All I’m saying is that when the moment is yours, grab it by the throat and take charge.
I hadn’t seen her for several weeks and she surprised me when I went to her office to visit a friend. Her beauty instantly took hold of me and I found myself begging for every bit of her attention. In other words, my inner was screaming for more.
I did my best to keep myself under control and I still believe that the fact we hadn’t seen each other played to my advantage. I don’t know if that makes sense to you but it should. No worries though if it doesn’t.
Anyway, here’s my point:
Whatever your faith is, or whatever your beliefs are, realize that you are the product of millions and millions of variables. You don’t need to believe in Evolution in order to believe in genetics. I personally ascribe to both.
Who we are today is the result of all of our ancestors combined. Think of a huge line of dominoes stacked right next to each other. And as the first domino falls to make the entire line ride into motion, you are the very last domino at the end of the line. And this makes you truly special.
I’m not saying that the planets have aligned to produce your birth. All I’m saying is that even though you are alive today, you could have just as easily not been alive. And the fact that the majority of us do very little to let our true selves be known, it doesn’t surprise me when I see threads talking about issues we covered in the past ad nauseum.
Realize that you are one of a kind and nothing could ever replace you. Your views, opinions, personal characteristics and quirks are all yours and yours alone. Don’t be stubborn, but don’t be a sheep either.
In the past I used to “fake it until I made it”. Nothing wrong with this of course but when you find yourself doing this after several years then you really haven’t made it. Know what I mean? I would rather get rejected, dumped, or whatever the **** for being myself than to hold on to a girl while I wear a mask throughout the entire courtship.
This is a lot to digest but I hope my message has been clear. If you believe in something, don’t just believe it, be it. Be the belief with all your strength and intellect and don’t let anyone ever tell you who you truly are. For in a world full of many unpredictable events, it’s always reassuring to know that you yourself have control over the one thing that really matters……YOU.
But what does this really mean? Everyday we see countless examples of people telling their friends “Look man, just be yourself.” There are of course similar clichés but this one is by far the most prominent.
Let me give it to you straight:
I have personally built my sex, social, and relationship lives from the ground up. Each one different, yet they all combine to form a whole. And in the beginning, none of this construction had anything to do with the pickup community as we now know it. This is every person’s responsibility and I urge you to take control of this right now.
Besides, how the hell can you be yourself when you don’t even accept yourself? You look in the mirror and all these limiting beliefs come flying towards you and all you can do is cower in defense. For once in your life, stand the **** up!
Do you ever find yourself changing your views in front of attractive women? Whether it be a particular opinion you had about something or even a choice of clothing, we are all guilty of this at one time or another.
But my question is this: why the hell do guys even do this in the first place? Why would you ever change for a few seconds what took you your entire life to build? It just doesn’t make any sense.
Earlier today I found myself supplicating to a woman who has currently captured my attention. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying don’t ever supplicate. All I’m saying is that when the moment is yours, grab it by the throat and take charge.
I hadn’t seen her for several weeks and she surprised me when I went to her office to visit a friend. Her beauty instantly took hold of me and I found myself begging for every bit of her attention. In other words, my inner was screaming for more.
I did my best to keep myself under control and I still believe that the fact we hadn’t seen each other played to my advantage. I don’t know if that makes sense to you but it should. No worries though if it doesn’t.
Anyway, here’s my point:
Whatever your faith is, or whatever your beliefs are, realize that you are the product of millions and millions of variables. You don’t need to believe in Evolution in order to believe in genetics. I personally ascribe to both.
Who we are today is the result of all of our ancestors combined. Think of a huge line of dominoes stacked right next to each other. And as the first domino falls to make the entire line ride into motion, you are the very last domino at the end of the line. And this makes you truly special.
I’m not saying that the planets have aligned to produce your birth. All I’m saying is that even though you are alive today, you could have just as easily not been alive. And the fact that the majority of us do very little to let our true selves be known, it doesn’t surprise me when I see threads talking about issues we covered in the past ad nauseum.
Realize that you are one of a kind and nothing could ever replace you. Your views, opinions, personal characteristics and quirks are all yours and yours alone. Don’t be stubborn, but don’t be a sheep either.
In the past I used to “fake it until I made it”. Nothing wrong with this of course but when you find yourself doing this after several years then you really haven’t made it. Know what I mean? I would rather get rejected, dumped, or whatever the **** for being myself than to hold on to a girl while I wear a mask throughout the entire courtship.
This is a lot to digest but I hope my message has been clear. If you believe in something, don’t just believe it, be it. Be the belief with all your strength and intellect and don’t let anyone ever tell you who you truly are. For in a world full of many unpredictable events, it’s always reassuring to know that you yourself have control over the one thing that really matters……YOU.