RockstarPUA
Don Juan
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Hey guys,
The more in field practice I get with hotter women the more I realize how important being unreactive is. I'm getting some decent success and am learning new skills every time I go out but I need to learn to be completely unreactive.
The hottest women in the bar can throw sh*t test after sh*t test and can appear to be completely disinterested but this usually isn't the case. As you all know you have to pass their sh*t tests to get them to open up a little. This is common knowledge.
Going out 4-5 nights a week has made me way less reactive then I once was but I still get thrown off sometimes when women give me hard sh*t-tests. Even though I usually have a reply for all of the sh*t tests, it does effect my state and probably my overall vibe and frame. I want to be completely immune to what a woman says.
I'm sure you guys have experienced this feeling...
I was just on the phone to this girl that I've been chatting up for a while. We've talked once or twice but I haven't been able to get her out for a day 2 yet. So I said the old 'hey I've got to go do some shopping sunday...you should tag along. I need a fashion consultant" and she declined. Said she was busy.
I had previously been on the phone with this other girl that I had recently # closed who is smokin with a stellar personality. I lined up a day 2 with her and the convo went awesome. So when I called this 2nd girl I was feeling awesome and when she said she couldn't make it out I wasn't reactive at all. I just had this feeling where I didn't care but I knew that no matter what she said, eventually I would get her out because she is into me.
Is this the root of being unreactive: Believing that the woman WANTS you no matter what she says? Believing that its always on? OR is it that I am being reactive because I am putting too much value on what the woman says?
I've heard stories from some of my wings about guys like "Tim" the Australian guy that is an RSD instructor. The guy is just ridiculously unreactive and it works...
I need to become unreactive. Any advice on how?
I'm considering making different affirmations for myself like "All women want me. Its always on." and "I am more valuable than any other person".
I want that sort of fun, 'thats cute because I know you want me despite what your saying' kind of un reactiveness.
Any ideas fellas?
~Rockstar
The more in field practice I get with hotter women the more I realize how important being unreactive is. I'm getting some decent success and am learning new skills every time I go out but I need to learn to be completely unreactive.
The hottest women in the bar can throw sh*t test after sh*t test and can appear to be completely disinterested but this usually isn't the case. As you all know you have to pass their sh*t tests to get them to open up a little. This is common knowledge.
Going out 4-5 nights a week has made me way less reactive then I once was but I still get thrown off sometimes when women give me hard sh*t-tests. Even though I usually have a reply for all of the sh*t tests, it does effect my state and probably my overall vibe and frame. I want to be completely immune to what a woman says.
I'm sure you guys have experienced this feeling...
I was just on the phone to this girl that I've been chatting up for a while. We've talked once or twice but I haven't been able to get her out for a day 2 yet. So I said the old 'hey I've got to go do some shopping sunday...you should tag along. I need a fashion consultant" and she declined. Said she was busy.
I had previously been on the phone with this other girl that I had recently # closed who is smokin with a stellar personality. I lined up a day 2 with her and the convo went awesome. So when I called this 2nd girl I was feeling awesome and when she said she couldn't make it out I wasn't reactive at all. I just had this feeling where I didn't care but I knew that no matter what she said, eventually I would get her out because she is into me.
Is this the root of being unreactive: Believing that the woman WANTS you no matter what she says? Believing that its always on? OR is it that I am being reactive because I am putting too much value on what the woman says?
I've heard stories from some of my wings about guys like "Tim" the Australian guy that is an RSD instructor. The guy is just ridiculously unreactive and it works...
I need to become unreactive. Any advice on how?
I'm considering making different affirmations for myself like "All women want me. Its always on." and "I am more valuable than any other person".
I want that sort of fun, 'thats cute because I know you want me despite what your saying' kind of un reactiveness.
Any ideas fellas?
~Rockstar
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