Being undermined by another guy (need advice!)

[ty1986]

Ok, so I've known this girl for probably about a year now. My friend used to be obsessed with her but she never liked him, and whenever she was around me I would just talk about other girls. So she started to become super attracted to me from the start.

Now, the last 2 weeks we've been chatting via facebook, text messeging, and on the phone. We finally hung out last weekend, I brought my roommate out with me and hes a really selfish prick. So he started spitting alot of game at her and she was kinda into it. We both got pretty wasted, and went home together. The only catch is we didn't have sex, she was just in her panties and nothing else the whole night and we messed around for hours and she kept saying crap like "I don't want you to talk to that other girl" type of stuff.

So basically **** would be in the bag right? Well not really, because my roommate I found out is undermining me. I walked in when he was chatting with her on facebook (found out he added her after that night because she is super hot and super fun), he exitted really fast and I didn't mention it. Anyways, he undermined one of my other friends with two different girls, by acting like he can't be with them because of his friend (other guy) or in this case roommate (me) likes her.

So my question is, how can I swing this into my favor? I've thought up a couple scenarios that might work, tell me what you think.
1. Ignore her for a while until she comes around (problem is my roommate will probably be talking to her the entire time spitting game)
2. Tell her I'm seeing other people (because for some reason this works on her)
3. Forget that my roommate is even trying (the only problem is she seems to be attracted to things she can't have)
4. Undermine him by DLVing him since he is trying to undermine me

Please help asap!!!

 

[Bible_Belt]

So he started spitting alot of game at her and she was kinda into it.


When he walks away, tell her that he uses a web site to teach him how to get girls, and tease her for being so naive as to fall for it. Then when he comes back, everything he says becomes a joke between you and her.

I call this tactic...."The Sosuave AMOG" :rockon:

 

[CaptainJ]

What a total prick. Call him out on his bull****, and tell him to stop being a ****blocking *****.

If that fails, and he still remains a prick, then use bible belt's idea.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

So he started spitting alot of game at her and she was kinda into it.


When he walks away, tell her that he uses a web site to teach him how to get girls, and tease her for being so naive as to fall for it. Then when he comes back, everything he says becomes a joke between you and her.

I call this tactic...."The Sosuave AMOG" :rockon:

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. Exactly. I finally totally agree with something Bible Belt says. Part joking, part serious, yet, think about it, that is something that will work pretty much most times.

A very wuss way for emergency situations like this, just throw at him all your projections and insecurities, then once she's in the bag, then worry about working on your issues.

 

[ty1986]

Good advice, I wish I had thought of that at the time! You know whats funny about that comment he uses websites to pick up girls? I had got amog'd by another bartender at my work (who got fired eventually) by telling this gorgeous girl I worked with that I read books and websites on picking up girls! I called him out on it and called him a total ****block and he just laughed and didn't apologize. I was screwed with her for months!

But I wish I could do it now without bringing him up in an awkward way, because I hardly ever take him out with me, but that night was his lucky night and this girl happen to be the girl I was bringing with me out as well.

So anyways I won't get the chance to hang out with her this weekend (I'm just gonna act like I'm busy all weekend). But yeah I need to find a way to add him into our conversation without making him look good, than drop the amog line on her haha.