Being uncut and having no feeling with rubbers

[Thorninmyside]

40 years old, having sex since early 20s and for the life of me I still haven't enjoyed a single lay with a rubber. I'm uncut, which I'm happy to be, but for ONS or beginning of relationships I cannot get sensation and either give up after pleasing the lady, or asking her to finish me with BJ/HJ.

I've tried different shapes and thicknesses, tried lubing my soldier, peeling back foreskin. I can stay hard for a while to get the job done but can never reach climax. I hate it and the girl often feels she hasn't turned me on. There's only so many times you can end with a handjob before something looks suss.

Who's been there and who has overcome it? I do not want to **** up my new relationship but it's already becoming a source of questions why I haven't come very often while inside.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Thorninmyside,
All that you describe is part and parcel of the aging process...variety of reasons...Inevitably you lose sensitivity as you age.....Probably you do it more frequently...The Women you bang no longer turn you on as much as when the whole thing was a novelty...In General Caucasian Women particularly after Childbirth and encounters with bigger Men,become loose,cant generate the necessary friction...At the moment I come maybe twice a week out of five encounters with mainly Asian Women....they are much tighter and will get you there quicker and more often...Know also that Vasal Dilators will decrease sensitivity...Alcohol will just kill the erection!

 

[Bible_Belt]

#1 - Viagra

#2 - Why are you in a relationship and still using a condom?

 

[Thorninmyside]

#1 - Viagra

#2 - Why are you in a relationship and still using a condom?

#1 using cialis and I can get hard at the drop of a hat with it, but that doesn't help me come because I require sensation

#2 brand new relationship and we just got tested for each other's peace of mind. We will probably go raw very soon, but this has been a long term issue for me even went I was in my 20s.

Asian Women....they are much tighter and will get you there quicker and more often...Know also that Vasal Dilators will decrease sensitivity...Alcohol will just kill the erection!

Yep, I'm with a 25 year old Asian now. I stay away from alcohol and also spermicide rubbers

 

[grayclif]

You have done the right thing and both got tested. Just do your best till you don't have to use rubbers anymore. Good luck with the relationship.

 

[speed dawg]

I've tried different shapes and thicknesses, tried lubing my soldier, peeling back foreskin. I can stay hard for a while to get the job done but can never reach climax. I hate it and the girl often feels she hasn't turned me on. There's only so many times you can end with a handjob before something looks suss.

My first thought is that you are thinking too much. I'd say just lay back, and enjoy the fact that you can last forever like a stud. Punish the c*nt, in other words. Get a little vain with it, if you have to. Enjoy the act more.

On condoms, they aren't natural, so you really can't expect sensation. I've always hated them to, but it is what it is. If you want to prevent pregnancy, you do what you have to do. It's not going to be the same. That's life.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Cheers guys.

GF cannot have kids so I'm safe there. Will push for the real deal soon.

 

[Thorninmyside]

But hey, just so I get this for the future, are there any uncut guys here who've gotten by with rubbers?

There are a lot of nerve endings in the forseskin and uncut guys get pleasure from the movement of that moreso than anything. So how do you get more movement when you're wrapping? Use a "headroom" sort of rubber? Nothing I've had allows true movement.

 

[old married dude]

In General Caucasian Women particularly after Childbirth and encounters with bigger Men,become loose,cant generate the necessary friction...

In the butt will solve that problem! :crackup:

 

[Lozboss]

OP

Simply put- you need to take a break from Sex. Completely. Not even masturbation.

You'll regain your sensitivity but it ay take a month or more of no touching it.

Also suggest you get some of the intensive moisturizers for it and do this twice daily.

 

[Die Hard]

Double post

 

[Die Hard]

Tell me about it, I have this problem too. I'm almost at a point where I'd rather have NO sex then sex with a rubber... The first while after going inside her, I have reasonable sensation. But after a few minutes, the sensation becomes less until eventually I almost feel like I'm banging "nothing", as if her pvsssy isn't even there

You can try pulling the condom only half way over your d!ck, leaving a lot of unfilled space at the front of the condom. This will leave room for your foreskin to move over the top of your d!ck.

It just looks ridiculous having half of the condom hanging from the front of your d!ck... But if you get your c0ck in her pvssy with this setup, it will enhance your experience!

 

[Thorninmyside]

OP

Simply put- you need to take a break from Sex. Completely. Not even masturbation.

You'll regain your sensitivity but it ay take a month or more of no touching it.

Also suggest you get some of the intensive moisturizers for it and do this twice daily.

Good advice. I can certainly keep hands off but a 30 day break from the Mrs in a new relationship ain't gonna be practical. I'll update this when I see some change. Also upping my zinc and magnesium and gonna try L-Arginine which is apparently good for blood flow.

 

[skinnyguy]

Tell me about it, I have this problem too. I'm almost at a point where I'd rather have NO sex then sex with a rubber... The first while after going inside her, I have reasonable sensation. But after a few minutes, the sensation becomes less until eventually I almost feel like I'm banging "nothing", as if her pvsssy isn't even there

You can try pulling the condom only half way over your d!ck, leaving a lot of unfilled space at the front of the condom. This will leave room for your foreskin to move over the top of your d!ck.

It just looks ridiculous having half of the condom hanging from the front of your d!ck... But if you get your c0ck in her pvssy with this setup, it will enhance your experience!

Lol tell me about it, I can't finish with a rubber

 

[mrgoodstuff]

They have a condom that's just a cap for the head, so the shaft feels pleasure and is in vagina.

It's probably not as safe, but will let you have sensation without worring about pregnancy or diseases that travel the urethra.

Condoms also feel the same to me like you uncut guys. I simply feel pressure, no signs of warmth, moisture and I cannot feel vaginal textures or internal structures as easily.