So lately..well actually for a while now..i've heard many girls say that i am too sarcastic. I wasnt really sure what they meant by this because i never try to act sarcastic or pretending to be something im not. I just like to kid around.
For instance, i was at a womens softball game and my friend(girl) says 'Oh nice hat, but not really'' I knew she was joking..she was on bench the whole game and i said ..''oh nice play you made out there. haha'' ...
i got a couple of laughs from other women and she and i even giggled. I felt like i went overboard and even said ''Im just kidding''..
However, before and after the comment I made..she said to me.."I hate you. No seriously, i HATE you. Not just an 'oh haha ur i hate u' sort of way but a real HATE for you''.
i had no response to this. I felt lousy, but didnt show it.
Then afterwards she says again. "I hate you. Everything you say is so sarcastic and i hate it.''
Ive heard the same line from MANY girls before too. "Ohh you're too sarcastic and/or rude and/or mean''
I am only joking around, and everyone knows me as a fun, joking person. And i only say 'sarcastic' comments when they say something sarcastic to me
I am only trying to have fun..
What am i doing wrong? Not every girl says this, but most do.
For instance, i was at a womens softball game and my friend(girl) says 'Oh nice hat, but not really'' I knew she was joking..she was on bench the whole game and i said ..''oh nice play you made out there. haha'' ...
i got a couple of laughs from other women and she and i even giggled. I felt like i went overboard and even said ''Im just kidding''..
However, before and after the comment I made..she said to me.."I hate you. No seriously, i HATE you. Not just an 'oh haha ur i hate u' sort of way but a real HATE for you''.
i had no response to this. I felt lousy, but didnt show it.
Then afterwards she says again. "I hate you. Everything you say is so sarcastic and i hate it.''
Ive heard the same line from MANY girls before too. "Ohh you're too sarcastic and/or rude and/or mean''
I am only joking around, and everyone knows me as a fun, joking person. And i only say 'sarcastic' comments when they say something sarcastic to me
I am only trying to have fun..
What am i doing wrong? Not every girl says this, but most do.