"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Being too available?

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Perfect10

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I've been hanging out with this chick now for two days in a row. She's been sleeping in my place and so fort. Today she went home, acted all cold in the morning, I noticed it so I just ignored and played cold aswell. 2h later she txts me if I want to go hangout tomorrow.

I've read that if you hangout alot it's creates a confortment that's good but also I don't want to make myself too available. So I haven't txtd her yet!
What should I do, and how should I answer?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FreD_BeaR

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Tell her youre busy and suggest another day. Im not sure how long youve known this girl or have been seeing her, but regardless, Spending too much time with anyone really, especially a girl is not good. Its all about the push-pull. Give it a bit of time so she really wants to see you. then the next time she sees you, shell have missed you and will like you more, otherwise spend too much time and shes likely to eventually get bored, and the more likely you are to get too comfortable and screw up.
 
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