"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being too available?

Perfect10

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I've been hanging out with this chick now for two days in a row. She's been sleeping in my place and so fort. Today she went home, acted all cold in the morning, I noticed it so I just ignored and played cold aswell. 2h later she txts me if I want to go hangout tomorrow.

I've read that if you hangout alot it's creates a confortment that's good but also I don't want to make myself too available. So I haven't txtd her yet!
What should I do, and how should I answer?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FreD_BeaR

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Tell her youre busy and suggest another day. Im not sure how long youve known this girl or have been seeing her, but regardless, Spending too much time with anyone really, especially a girl is not good. Its all about the push-pull. Give it a bit of time so she really wants to see you. then the next time she sees you, shell have missed you and will like you more, otherwise spend too much time and shes likely to eventually get bored, and the more likely you are to get too comfortable and screw up.
 
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