Yeah i've been there. It's a tough time; you don't know if her feelings are genuine or if she's just trying to act like she has feelings b/c she wants to just have a somebody with her. Girls can be especially flaky in this situation. So you have to be really good, DJ to the max...BUT
You kinda have to walk a tightrope. If you're too distant, she is likely to find another that will be "all over her" b/c she wants the attention that she's been accustomed to. At the same time, if you're too close to her, she'll be flaky and lose interest. It's really tough to do, but it's worth a shot. She might need a little more 'emotional support' (if you will) than another chick, but not too much. The rules don't really change; it's just the proportions.
I'm out- E-Z