"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I think alot of people come on this website looking for that quick fix. A desperate change to fill a emptyness inside them to have a girlfriend. A Don Juan is a lifestyle, not a bunch of strategies and tactics you remember to get a woman. Its much more to it. Its improving YOURSELF to better YOURSELF. Some people forget this fact or don't recognize it. This site is full of information and advice to help you.

Lets say you are not a good conversationalist. So you read the Dj Bible to become better at conversations. But, why learn this to only get women? Why not learn this to be good conversationalist with everybody? Or with approaching women. Why get better at just approaching women when you can approach anybody. This way you meet more people and have more friends. Same thing goes with any other post. You can either focus on a peice of the pie or focus on the WHOLE thing.

Then, you got the people who just try to remember everything and think about what move or tactic their gonna use next. This will screw your game up because your too busy and lost in thoughts of what your gonna do. Or worry if your doing it right and if its working. You just need to live in the present time; relax and enjoy the moment. Don't sit there wondering if a girl likes you or what her body language is saying to you. Only look at her actions. My bottom line here.. Quit trying so hard. The less you try and worry what she thinks of you; the easier it will be.

What I am trying to say here is. Focus on yourself and how you can improve yourself. Once you accomplished that the woman come easy. So go out there and get a life, a job, hobby, new friends. Learn a new sport, write a book whatever the F@CK YOU WANT TO DO. There is sooo much to experience in life than women.

Anyways I got things to do and running out of ideas. Hopefully, what I wrote will help somebody. If not, oh well. Peace.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Awesome post.

And while it falls in line well with a lot of other posts on being a "true" Don Juan, it's always good to hear it told in a different way from a different person.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Thanks for the comment. I wanted to get more indepth with my post but had to leave on short notice. Maybe ill make another thread sometime but, next time have more information/theories.
 

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Solid stuff.... live your dreams, and you'll become the man of her dreams.
 
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