"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Being that Don Juan

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I think alot of people come on this website looking for that quick fix. A desperate change to fill a emptyness inside them to have a girlfriend. A Don Juan is a lifestyle, not a bunch of strategies and tactics you remember to get a woman. Its much more to it. Its improving YOURSELF to better YOURSELF. Some people forget this fact or don't recognize it. This site is full of information and advice to help you.

Lets say you are not a good conversationalist. So you read the Dj Bible to become better at conversations. But, why learn this to only get women? Why not learn this to be good conversationalist with everybody? Or with approaching women. Why get better at just approaching women when you can approach anybody. This way you meet more people and have more friends. Same thing goes with any other post. You can either focus on a peice of the pie or focus on the WHOLE thing.

Then, you got the people who just try to remember everything and think about what move or tactic their gonna use next. This will screw your game up because your too busy and lost in thoughts of what your gonna do. Or worry if your doing it right and if its working. You just need to live in the present time; relax and enjoy the moment. Don't sit there wondering if a girl likes you or what her body language is saying to you. Only look at her actions. My bottom line here.. Quit trying so hard. The less you try and worry what she thinks of you; the easier it will be.

What I am trying to say here is. Focus on yourself and how you can improve yourself. Once you accomplished that the woman come easy. So go out there and get a life, a job, hobby, new friends. Learn a new sport, write a book whatever the F@CK YOU WANT TO DO. There is sooo much to experience in life than women.

Anyways I got things to do and running out of ideas. Hopefully, what I wrote will help somebody. If not, oh well. Peace.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awesome post.

And while it falls in line well with a lot of other posts on being a "true" Don Juan, it's always good to hear it told in a different way from a different person.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Thanks for the comment. I wanted to get more indepth with my post but had to leave on short notice. Maybe ill make another thread sometime but, next time have more information/theories.
 

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Solid stuff.... live your dreams, and you'll become the man of her dreams.
 
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