qld mate
having a blast.
yes...really when you get down to it, i think an elimaton of all the things that at a base level become a detriment to being smooth, is what ben is seeking.
Now that may sound weird first up, but re read it again, and again until you get it.
Because you can be smooth in so many ways.....
but there is one way to avoid being not-smooth....and that is to eliminate first all the things that inhibit it.
nervousness, twitches, quick movements, darting eyes, caring about what other people think.
Ok. Here is a bit of smoothness for you.
Last week. Took my mate out and the girl i am seeing.
We saw my ex gf walk by, and she said hi to me (last time she told me to f off) i said hi and introduced her to my gf i had with me, then went about my own business when everyone got chatting (i wont be seen talking to my ex too much with my gf around, if i wanted to talk to her at all)....ok, so then my ex and her friend get up on the platform to our side and start dancing away....
i am just standing back now and not even caring or looking like i care, just getting on with life, then a little later while those 2 show off's :0 are dancing, i am down on ground level in full sightlicking the salt from the tequila shot off my current gf's tits. And i never once looked at the other two girls. I spoke to them a bit later, and they didnt interest me much at all.
Thats smooth, and i didn't care what anyone thought, i didn't care about looking bad in frotn of my ex, or upsetting my new gf, or worrying if she thought something was going on. None of that, just confident and happy to be around my mate and the girl i was seeing who also had friends there
So its an appearance. To break it down, ben, and other guys (i hate using examples from my own life) just look at what i did....remained cool, calm collected and still functioned as a decent human being....oh yes, and i past a dificult moment in flying colours so to speak....
and the last thing,....i didnt go on about it like i am now. smooth remember.