“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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All I can say is uh,,,, I ask her to hang out saturday and she said sure, She called me Friday we talk and I told her I was gonna call her around 6 ish 7 ish bam when 7 rolled around called nobody there

around 8 I decide oh well I'm gonna go with my brother to grab something to eat we walk around downtown but we got lost and out of the blue bam she with a group 3 girls and 1 guy, all doll up clubing pretty sure, I didnt notice them we were walking down the street and I wasnt paying attention until she came and grab me we were going different directions I was on the phone talking to another girl.

Me: ( uh wtf shocked who this girl grabbing me)
Her: what you dont know me anymore?
Me: Uh hey.....

Both group walks away....

I known this girl for couple months but talk a little bit not much and didnt hang out until recently.

I was kind of slow I didnt mean to ignore her but I really didnt notice her I was on the phone and we were lost I was joking with my brother saying we gonna look like tourist.

I'm not gonna make a big deal out of it, I just dont want her to think that I was mad, so yeah.... I have my own kingdom to worrie about and atm she not part of it. I really do like this girl I just cant help but there still some AFC in me to make mountain out of mole hills.

so now what? should I text her and say hey didnt mean to ignore u?, but it kind of bother me little bit.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Unsure said:
All I can say is uh,,,, I ask her to hang out saturday and she said sure, She called me Friday we talk and I told her I was gonna call her around 6 ish 7 ish bam when 7 rolled around called nobody there

around 8 I decide oh well I'm gonna go with my brother to grab something to eat we walk around downtown but we got lost and out of the blue bam she with a group 3 girls and 1 guy, all doll up clubing pretty sure, I didnt notice them we were walking down the street and I wasnt paying attention until she came and grab me we were going different directions I was on the phone talking to another girl.

Me: ( uh wtf shocked who this girl grabbing me)
Her: what you dont know me anymore?
Me: Uh hey.....

Both group walks away....

I known this girl for couple months but talk a little bit not much and didnt hang out until recently.

I was kind of slow I didnt mean to ignore her but I really didnt notice her I was on the phone and we were lost I was joking with my brother saying we gonna look like tourist.

I'm not gonna make a big deal out of it, I just dont want her to think that I was mad, so yeah.... I have my own kingdom to worrie about and atm she not part of it. I really do like this girl I just cant help but there still some AFC in me to make mountain out of mole hills.

so now what? should I text her and say hey didnt mean to ignore u?, but it kind of bother me little bit.

nah man don't text her. Call her and make a joke out of it. "I didn't know you were a public kidnapper, I got scared!"

Anything, but don't excuse yourself. Just tell her later if she asks that you were busy and she surprised you.
 
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