"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being single but still acting like you get alot..

El Don

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I know almost all guys are single when they are looking to hook up and everything but I have this mentality that girls dont think you have any value if they see you are single. Im probably crazy and it sounds stupid but I guess I think like that because all of my friends have a g/f and I dont, and I think that when girls see me at a party or out with my other friends for example they notice them with their g/f and im not with anyone and they think that I have no value and I feel like it may ruin my game or makes me look like I dont get any. How can I act or project to girls that can still get some and have value even though I may be single when my friends are not?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If it bothers you that you are single then it will show. Two options:

1) stop letting being single bother you - women don't care that you are single... they only care about the image that your project.
2) hang out with more single people.
 

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The people who know me know why i am single....Its not because i cant get anyone.... Im just picky.

I just got given a number by a girl i was chatting too...Less than 5 mins ago in my shop. I didnt even ask her for it. Im not going to call it...im not intrested....Shes HB 5 but i set myself a target of 7 and above. (I have strict HB ratings. 7 is "fit" by most peoples standards...)

Hell the reason i just thought of replying on this topic is because it was just going threw my head right now.....How long will I be single for? I dunno.
I think my main issue with women is they are all pretty thick....I need a women with abit more intelligence....Where are they?


Anyways.....back to topic....Single men do have less value....Its basic psychology. Forbidden fruit tastes sweetier. Guys who are taken are marked as being in demand. The only single people who can get higher demand are those that get the image of being picky...I know one or two guys that girls will go for just to see if they can get him....Proving ground....thats being the prize alright. Still that demand is only if girls "know" the person...so doesnt effect cold approaching.....

Stick to that if it makes you comfortable. I prefer to pull in my social group.


Sarge On!
 

Driven2Succeed

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u just gotta be confident and it doesnt really matter man.. i mean a girl wants a guy she knows can get women.. she doesnt wanna be the only one who likes the guy..

if u are single and have no reason, then uv got a problem, but if u are single cuz ur picky or because rite now u dont have a time for a serious thing, most girls are cool with that.. just be upfront and u will come off as confident
 
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