it also depends what you want with the girl and what the girl wants with you. i mean if its just to bang, of course night dates are better. but if you just want to get to know a girl, any time of the day is fine cause you just need to communicate and talk, get to know each other. i find that no matter what, talking is what makes both of you chill out. getting to know them more is what you want. if you click with a girl i dont think it matters what time of the day it is. but thats just me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Being "sexual" on a coffee/lunch date
- Thread starter Kenny Powers
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