"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being seen with ugly girls

thunder_god

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I know if your seen with beautiful women, it raises your social value in the eyes of your target, but what if your with an ugly chick? Do the girls now view you with a decreased social value?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don-Kong

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Depends if you are out gaming? Then yes, but the more friends you have around you then it raises your social worth.

If you are out only with ugly *****es, then forget it. It looks like you are rescuing or ****ing ugly *****es.
 

Don-Kong

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Depends if you are out gaming? Then yes, but the more friends you have around you then it raises your social worth.

If you are out only with ugly *****es, then forget it. It looks like you are rescuing or ****ing ugly *****es.
 

Alvafe

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hey as long you was seen like friends I don't think its a problem, if was seen making out with a ugly girl then I can see your rank taking a hit.
if even going out your female friends look ugly and not normal or ok, I guess you need more friends. because serious woman even when that full make up thing still look ugly, I don't see how you can even become friend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The_411

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Mike32ct said:
That's a good question. Is a guy better off (status / social proof-wise) with an ugly chick than no chick at all?

I'll see what the other guys say.
It depends how ugly, but if a girl isn't good looking then you lose social value because you're broadcasting to other women that this is my level.

If you roll with 4s and 5s you might be able to snag a six but if you roll with 7+ and 8+ you have access to all the "numbers". (There is no 10. It is a lie).
 

PeasantPlayer

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Who cares what people think. Guys subconsciously try to out do each other. What is another 7 to one man , might be a 5 for me. Everyone has different taste.
 

Mike32ct

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PeasantPlayer said:
Who cares what people think. Guys subconsciously try to out do each other. What is another 7 to one man , might be a 5 for me. Everyone has different taste.
I agree with you. The goal isn't to impress anybody. You shouldn't care what anybody thinks.

I think it's more of a hypothetical question. If you were with a chick that was objectively bordering on ugly, how would it affect your rep?
 

Desdinova

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Women don't care if the girl you're with is ugly or not. If you display value to EVERYONE in the room, then they will compete with the ugly chick for your attention.
 

Mike32ct

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Desdinova said:
Women don't care if the girl you're with is ugly or not. If you display value to EVERYONE in the room, then they will compete with the ugly chick for your attention.
Plus it might make their hamsters spin. "What does SHE have going on?" Under the right circumstances, it sounds like it might be interesting.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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skinnyguy

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Being with a fat chick is better than being with no chick at all. It shows you are desirable to women
 
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