"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being Seen With Kids

LoneSilver

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Not sure if this has been covered or not but does being seen with say your nephew whose around 9 or 10 years old or with your niece the same age when going to the store or out and about attract women in anyway.

I read somewhere a lot of women are attracted to married men just wonder if being seen with your brothers kids would have the same affect even though they don't know their your nephews and nieces.

Just wondering.

LoneSilver
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jay Jay

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Yep... sometimes... for a particular type...

Chicks have a really strong maternal instinct. If they see you as being a father type you will trigger something inside them... but it aint feelings of casual dirty sex. They'll see you as more long term stuff.

So if you are looking for a LTR good.

Looking for causal sex... not so good.

JJ
 

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I see and makes sense.

Thanks for the insight Jay Jay.

LoneSilver


Jay Jay said:
Chicks have a really strong maternal instinct. If they see you as being a father type you will trigger something inside them... but it aint feelings of casual dirty sex. They'll see you as more long term stuff.

So if you are looking for a LTR good.

Looking for causal sex... not so good.

JJ
 

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LoneSilver said:
Not sure if this has been covered or not but does being seen with say your nephew whose around 9 or 10 years old or with your niece the same age when going to the store or out and about attract women in anyway.

I read somewhere a lot of women are attracted to married men just wonder if being seen with your brothers kids would have the same affect even though they don't know their your nephews and nieces.

Just wondering.

LoneSilver
It doesn't work for me. I teach children about 5 days a week. On the side, I'm a children's entertainer. Hasn't impressed any ladies, in spite of what they claim. Even when I am the only guy in the departments, I get thank you's and fake compliments, but it doesn't trigger anything in any woman I've met.

In fact, in my opinion, it makes them think that I'm a weirdo for being the only guy who's great with kids (maybe even being seen as a pervert), or at the very least that I can't have an adult conversation...

Only time I think women find that sort of thing endearing is if the guy is seen as being cute already.
 

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Depends on the women, some find men who are good with children as an attractive trait and some don't. Maybe you're just meeting the type of women who don't care much. Also I think it could also have to do with age.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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