"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being seen as a 'good guy' not a jerk....

Guitar_Whizz

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Hey guys, you may have read my post about getting back with my ex gf. We've been emailing each other and it's been going well...I've used lits of ****y + funny, sexual talk, and so on, and I feel I'm the one in the position of power.

The problem now is she is calling me a 'jerk' for the way I originally ended things, and I want her to see me as a 'good guy' (not jerk or nice guy). How can I change her view of me from jerk to DJ, without becoming a wussy nice guy?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PVSSY-EATER

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dont worry if she calls you a jerk, that is ******** for.....

it is just something about you that makes me want you...

everything is fine bro....dont worry
 

nishbuk

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Have you read Anti-Dump's machine? It's really good stuff.
 

Ricard78

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As the others have said, let her deal with it. Your back in her life now whats she complaining about. Be carefull she does not make you apologise for anything, i had an ex tell me if i didnt appologise we would not be gtting back together, hence she is still my ex.

Women: You can't live with them, and you can't get them to dress up in a skimpy little Nazi costume and beat you with a warm squash......Emo Phillips
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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