"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being rude to women?

brazilian_user

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Hi.

Women usually say I am rude. I was in the military, I am a lawyer and I am a brown belt Jiu Jitsu fighter.
I speak truths and it hurts people, because they don't want to know truths.

And we have this thing in Brazil, where you can't really say things real straight. It is a cultural thing.

So, how do I deal that with women?

These are things I usually say:
"People can't get too fat. Fatness is not good for health".
"You can't spend more than you have. You are spending too much and it will be a trouble for you".
"I can't spend time on stupid things. Stop bothering me with silly things".

I need help. If I am not assertive, women will abuse.

Thanks for the help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women are typically ruder IMO. Especially the younger ones seem to have an attitude, snobbish chip on their shoulder lately. I don't mean just dating, but anywhere you go, stores, restaurants, etc. they seem to be in a sh*tty mood.
 

bcude

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Women say they want the truth but they never want full disclosure.

When women start calling you this and that you know you're on the right track.

When you're pleasing to everyone, you know you're on the wrong track.
 

Speculator E

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I need help. If I am not assertive, women will abuse.
Thanks for the help.
Learn to STFU and don't tell people things. People don't want to hear the truth because it hurts.
And they will hate you for telling them the truth.
Keep doing it and you're going to get a lot of hater who might get violent on you.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Hi.

Women usually say I am rude. I was in the military, I am a lawyer and I am a brown belt Jiu Jitsu fighter.
I speak truths and it hurts people, because they don't want to know truths.

And we have this thing in Brazil, where you can't really say things real straight. It is a cultural thing.

So, how do I deal that with women?

These are things I usually say:
"People can't get too fat. Fatness is not good for health".
"You can't spend more than you have. You are spending too much and it will be a trouble for you".
"I can't spend time on stupid things. Stop bothering me with silly things".

I need help. If I am not assertive, women will abuse.

Thanks for the help.
You may want yo calibrate. Most guys are cucks and betas phaggotry. You can go too far one way or another.

A friend who will remain anonymous hoojed up some rsd julien vblogs. Lulz


In our current cuck culture, its not shocked he was banned now. Playboy is verbally kicking dumpy off her pedestal. Saw a vblog where he's trolling fatties lol. Picking up girls via trolling. Hilarious!


Most guys are soft. You are ex army. The army is full of cucked men (sadly). Man***** is ex military too. A bud is ex army. Crushes everything. You might be a outlier. Don't change for women. Just be aware and mindful.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Trump

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Women usually say I am rude. I was in the military, I am a lawyer and I am a brown belt Jiu Jitsu fighter.
I speak truths and it hurts people, because they don't want to know truths.

So, how do I deal that with women?

These are things I usually say:
"People can't get too fat. Fatness is not good for health".
"You can't spend more than you have. You are spending too much and it will be a trouble for you".
"I can't spend time on stupid things. Stop bothering me with silly things".

I need help. If I am not assertive, women will abuse.
What if a woman said:

Military vets are f@ggots.
Lawyers are snakes
Jim Jitsu fighters are gay.

You are confusing assertive with insulting. If you spit out whatever is in your brain, no one will want to deal with you.

Words are easy to prove, actions are hard. Be wise with your words, but do whatever the hell you want.
 
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