being on a terrace, looking 'couples'

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Silko

Don Juan

Sep 17, 2016

in Italy, Verona, city of Romeo & Julia.
I'm here guys to connect to Bologna. Not doing silly

But be NEVER in such a situation. Sure you know your are part of it, or not.

But actually you see this everywhere.
Couples, doing a romantic dinner. Or at least 1 of both thinks it is romantic.
The other one, mostly the woman, pretends it is, to not destroy what she wants to get at that moment

The scene is:
1/ the guy with a face: awesome
2/ the woman with a face: it's okay & nice here and now, but your are not my man

Last edited: Sep 17, 2016

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.