Being needy in a marriage. Isn't this a paradox?

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While reading this story........

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/pgkx8q

The author claimed to be married and was dating other women.

I have to work twice as hard to seduce because I’m married.

This is a direct response to the author from another user

if anything, it's actually easier. you have 0 expectations at baseline for any of these relationships because you literally have a wife lol

happy it worked out for you, but nonneediness is really easy if you're already taken. it's a tale as old as time, women are attracted to guys in relationships for this very reason.

The user is 100% correct with this statement.
How can you be needy when you're already married?
That has to be the ultimate paradox.

 

[bat soup]

While reading this story........

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/pgkx8q

The author claimed to be married and was dating other women.




This is a direct response to the author from another user




The user is 100% correct with this statement.
How can you be needy when you're already married?
That has to be the ultimate paradox.

Married guys can also be needy. I remember a story about a married guy that was buying jewelry and paying bills for a girl that was not his wife and he wasn't getting anywhere.