Being more indifferent VS Being a hot head - Thoughts?

[spiegel549]

Being indifferent VS having a woman know every little thing you dislike by verbally expressing. I have always been a slight hot head, meaning if a woman is late, or says something I don't like rather then letting it go, I call her out. Which always leads to a full blown argument which I end by putting her in check and being a d*ck.

I have been trying really hard to become more indifferent and it has mentally made me feel way better about handling situations. Especially when a chick does something I don't like, and rather then calling her out and telling her, I let it go and do it right back. Which then makes her go "Oh.....well...didn't realize I did that...I am sorry."

Really I am looking for some outside voices to make sure I am on the right mindset here. I go off the handle and put chicks in check to fast. I want to be more "What did she say? Eh who cares."

I also don't mean I start screaming and yelling but as an example I tell a chick we got to leave at 11:00am to this event. She texts running late at 10:50.....it is in my nature to say "Maybe you should of started getting ready earlier and not make us late, is it that hard?" Rather then just no response, and who cares.

Thoughts?

 

[Aryan Prince]

Depends how stressed said females are making you, its one of those things.that. you shud try balancing it out, so its only major things you call her out, or things.she does all.the time.... Im sure u psychologicaly will feel better.with less arguments.