Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What works for some people doesn't necessarily work for others. There is no one size fits all way of attracting people. A lot of it also depends on your personality. You could get rejected for being tall, short, mean, nice, shy, annoying, the list goes on. It all depends on who you are and what the other person is looking for or attracted to. Trying to be something you're not usually backfires unless you fake it well.
Men need to have this in their personality when needed IMO. The problem with this description is that if that's all you are, it runs the risk of being boring. It's a good base, but where's the fun?