greatsnake
Master Don Juan
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who in here has been labeled a fuxboy and what have been your responses to it?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"Why dont you find out?"
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
I always just smirked.
I've had Women give me a stare and I look at them like "what?". They'll slightly smile and ask me "You're a Fvckboy arent you?" I just smirked but that wasn't always the words used. I've been asked all kinds of sh*t. One time I was in a cab with this chick I met up with for a date, I sensed her staring at me, so I turned and asked her what she was looking at? she said "Hm... So How many Women have you fvcked?" I smirked at that question and didn't answer, she goes "THAT MANY HUH!?" Which made me laugh a bit. After she ends up getting really close to me and we started making out.. etc. Good times.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I always say “no I’m not, I do like women though” with a laugh, I never remember these witty responses and I forget to never directly answer the question in the heat of the moment.
However, when asked if I’m speaking to other girls I say “yeah all of them” or “yeah hundreds” which shuts them down and easily sidesteps that line of questioning.
However, when asked if I’m speaking to other girls I say “yeah all of them” or “yeah hundreds” which shuts them down and easily sidesteps that line of questioning.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Wow. Everyone has a nice stable.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
In all my years of dating I have never had a chick use the term 'fvck-boy' with me.
I have had women say things like 'You have quite a reputation." or "How many women are you seeing?" Stuff like that. My response is always to be puzzled. Really because it is a puzzling question if you don't know why she is asking this, which I will tell you at the end of this post. If she says you have a bad reputation, I'll ask "What do you mean by 'bad'?" Then depending on her definition. If she says something to the effect bad sexual reputation, then say something like "That's odd, I've never gotten any complaints." Make a joke about it, answer questions with questions. Turn it sexual, and say something like "Well... you know what I've never done with a woman.... then tell her a crazy sex fantasy... you are then challenging her to be different from any other woman.... see if she does it. Just act like it's a question you have never heard before. If she starts asking about particular women, just say you never kiss and tell, EVER. In fact, you should never tell ANYONE about ANYTHING you do with a chick by name.
It's okay to talk in generalities about events, but never mention the chick and NEVER brag... even to your friends. Because that gets around. Women do not care if you have a reputation, they really don't. However they do care about what you might say to other people. If she knows whatever happens between the two of you, will NEVER come out of your mouth, she will trust you and be okay with your past.
She doesn't care about your past, she only cares about what her friends think of her right now. Usually when chicks ask you questions like this she is trying to gauge if you are a big mouth braggart, or a liar. She also might be trying to gauge the competition, if she starts saying likes like she is just another girl to you, or a notch on a bed post, tell her what you like about her... be specific and do not lie. There is a reason you are dating her, just tell her why. She will either be okay with you seeing other women, or she won't. If she drifts off... no problem, there are other women.... and she is free to go find a dude that is willing to surrender to her and her alone. But to a chick, that gets old pretty fast, unless she's running out of options.
I have had women say things like 'You have quite a reputation." or "How many women are you seeing?" Stuff like that. My response is always to be puzzled. Really because it is a puzzling question if you don't know why she is asking this, which I will tell you at the end of this post. If she says you have a bad reputation, I'll ask "What do you mean by 'bad'?" Then depending on her definition. If she says something to the effect bad sexual reputation, then say something like "That's odd, I've never gotten any complaints." Make a joke about it, answer questions with questions. Turn it sexual, and say something like "Well... you know what I've never done with a woman.... then tell her a crazy sex fantasy... you are then challenging her to be different from any other woman.... see if she does it. Just act like it's a question you have never heard before. If she starts asking about particular women, just say you never kiss and tell, EVER. In fact, you should never tell ANYONE about ANYTHING you do with a chick by name.
It's okay to talk in generalities about events, but never mention the chick and NEVER brag... even to your friends. Because that gets around. Women do not care if you have a reputation, they really don't. However they do care about what you might say to other people. If she knows whatever happens between the two of you, will NEVER come out of your mouth, she will trust you and be okay with your past.
She doesn't care about your past, she only cares about what her friends think of her right now. Usually when chicks ask you questions like this she is trying to gauge if you are a big mouth braggart, or a liar. She also might be trying to gauge the competition, if she starts saying likes like she is just another girl to you, or a notch on a bed post, tell her what you like about her... be specific and do not lie. There is a reason you are dating her, just tell her why. She will either be okay with you seeing other women, or she won't. If she drifts off... no problem, there are other women.... and she is free to go find a dude that is willing to surrender to her and her alone. But to a chick, that gets old pretty fast, unless she's running out of options.
LOL, none of these guys has a "stable" of hot women. The women they're seeing are either ugly, old or both.
Guys who date ACTUAL hot women date ONE hot woman. When I mean hot woman I mean a woman who is actually hot. Sosuave guys think ugly skanks with ONE ok to attractive feature qualifies as hot.
No one on sosuave has ever met anyone else on sosuave. The ego's delusions have to be protected at all costs.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I'm sure he means stable of replies rather than hot women, nobody has once mentioned hot women in this thread except you chad.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ive met Howie. I have something coming together of my own. At a certain mental space "hot" chicks is normal.