“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Being Inconsistent

Scorpion11

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The help here on SS has helped me tremendously... There is only one problem, and its about my consistency. A couple weeks ago, I was making all kinds of strides, but then this last week, it seems as if i'm regressing back into AFCville. I blew a few opportunities left and right, which I would've never blown last week. I don't know what happened, but how should I get back into DJ mode???

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Everyone goes through times where they are AFC's again. Best thing to do is go out and try being DJish again and not getting down if you seem to become AFC for a week or so. It happens.
 

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I guess it will come with time...

I'm learning that you've gotta fight your urges (i.e. what your normal AFC self would do) and you've gotta keep raising your game..

I'm finding it quite tiring mentally, its really important to me and i'm waring myself out ! lol :D

Anyway, I guess you've just gotta keep on reading up on ideas and learn more about the mentallity... hopefully it will become 2nd nature !

Good Luck Guys !

James
 

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Yesterday looked a little more on the bright side...

Still, I can't see how I fell into such a slump, but as you guys said... it happens....
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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