"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If a woman you like and are just casually talking to for the time being asks if you're talking to other women would you tell her the truth if you were or is it best to just say only her?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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say something ****y, like "a few hundred, if your good I'll let you be number 247". But make sure you are being obviously sarcastic and having fun, then change the subject. You didn't lie and you don't lose the ones that would be turned off and you pass the test.
 
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What's wrong with talking with other women particulaarly when there is zero exclusivity between the two of you. If you are indeed "seeing" (I assume thats what she ment) other women, tell her you are. The worse you can do is to tell her you are, meanwhile you sleep alone.
 
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I just wanted some perspective on it. I always thought it was best not to even elaborate on it if she asks because the girl will think you're just not that into her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IamIam said:
I just wanted some perspective on it. I always thought it was best not to even elaborate on it if she asks because the girl will think you're just not that into her.
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Whats important here is not if she thinks you are not that into her, its her level of attraction and interest.

If she has high interest on you, it doesnt matter if you are bangin 200 chicks besides her... she still will be attracted to you if you do the things right.
 
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