Lordlaxative
Don Juan
If a girl hits you playfully do you hit them back? Or is this not "chivalrous." Like if you say something, and she hits you is it bad to hit her back playfully?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Being hit
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
LoL
Ever see 'Shrek'?
Where do you guys come up with these questions?...
If it is playful, whats the big deal?--Play back!
It's called... 'FLIRTING'.
Ever see 'Shrek'?
Where do you guys come up with these questions?...
If it is playful, whats the big deal?--Play back!
It's called... 'FLIRTING'.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
I say teach her a lesson and punch her in the mouth!!!!
LuvMyArmyMan
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hhahaha
you grab her and tickle her, wrap your arms around her head/neck (but dont strangle her haha) and just have fun
but if shes mad at you and hits you, apologize.
you grab her and tickle her, wrap your arms around her head/neck (but dont strangle her haha) and just have fun
but if shes mad at you and hits you, apologize.
it is playful, it's fun, if u dont play back ur a boring guy, and it also shows that you let ppl do whatever they want to u.
ifa female friend kicks me, i kick her back (lightly) dont wanna break her leg.
if she shoves me, i shove her back.
or i may do it to her anyway if i feel like it
ifa female friend kicks me, i kick her back (lightly) dont wanna break her leg.
if she shoves me, i shove her back.
or i may do it to her anyway if i feel like it
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.